Finally fixed it woot
Ok i couldn't sleep and i was getting bored farming fates in FFXIV, so i checked the log, it seems the problem was that XnaNative.dll wasn't loading. I checked my folder to see if i had the file since search wasn't turning anything up and found it in C:\Program Files (x86)\Common Files\microsoft shared\XNA\Framework\v4.0.
I searched google for a little while for solutions and they said to copy the file to the folder of the game and maybe it would work. Well apparently i couldn't copy it because windows 7 permissions couldn't let me. Tried changing permissions and that didn't work, tried with sharing, same. Googling wasn't much help because one of the solutions was changing the registry and that is a pain.
So i downloaded a program unlocker and tried moving the file and it worked, after two hours trying
Tried the game from steam and that didn't work, so i tried from the folder and that finally did the trick. Played a little and it seems very good, cant wait for gold release. Keep up the good work mate and thx for the help